"Be
careful what you feed your mind with. You may be nurturing a monster”
MJ Flack
"Finally,
brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever
is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is
admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about
such things" Philippians
4:8
Reflection:
Most
are familiar with the adage 'what goes in must come out'. This is
painfully true when it comes to the mind. What we focus on will
inevitably be revealed in our open thoughts and actions. Even our
casual thoughts can have a long term impact on our inner inclinations.
In Philippians we are instructed to focus on those things that are
pure, lovely, admirably, excellent and praiseworthy. So that these
things will nurture us with all the positive qualities they possess.
Jesus warns
us in Matthew 15:17-19 that what comes out of the mouth can and
will defile the person.
“Don’t
you see that whatever enters the mouth goes into the stomach and
then out
of the body? 18 But the things that come out of a person’s mouth
come from the
heart, and these defile them. 19 For out of the heart come evil
thoughts—murder,
adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.
But where do
these things originate? We know that we are sinners and our nature
is to lean towards sin. Which is why we are called to turn from
things that are sinful and to focus on things that are mentioned
in Philippians. Yet if we ponder on things of the flesh. Or we consider
something someone has done to us and made us angry to the point
of contention; which will start feeding the negative things in our
mind. Our mind will slowley poison our heart. Leading us to defile
ourselves by saying things that should never have been though of
in the first place.
There is an
quaint proverb that tells of a struggle between two dogs within
someone.
"Inside
everyone are two fighting dogs
one dog is deemed to be good.
The
other dog is deemed to be bad.
These two constantly struggle for dominance.
If asked which dog will eventually win in the end;
The answer is simply, the one you feed".
This has been
attributed to the Cherokee tribe. The conversation is said to take
place between a young man who has trouble controlling his anger
and an older member of the tribe who is teaching him about the inner
struggle between what is right and what is wrong. The concept of
feeding may be described as what the person thinks about. Whatever
they put in their minds and give mental importance to.
If someone
is constantly focusing on negative or aggressive thoughts it's no
wonder they will act out in ways that will hurt others and make
their life a battle field. While those that have thoughts positively
focused will find that even in conflicts they are able to stay pure.
Let's think
of mental food as a combination of positive vitamins (those things
that are uplifting and encouraging to both ourselves and to others)
and healthy fibre (those things that can help us create things such
as tangible and physical things useful in life). Any other thoughts
may be deemed neutral and of no lasting value. Or negative and detrimental
to our spiritual health.